I shut the world out. Drew the curtains, cut off the phone, curled up under the covers and slept. The tears fell, and fell, and fell as my body ached, my heart ached, my mind ached. There was something compelling about both wanting to feel pain so I could feel SOMETHING but also longing for the pain to end. The weeks after loss are some of the hardest I endured. They'll likely be your most difficult too. The tears will surprise you as they fall in the most inconvenient places ... Read More about 100 Steps: A Project For Hope, Healing, and Connection After Loss
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20 lessons loss has taught me about motherhood, love, and life
1. Be grateful for this moment. Because everything can change in an instant. 2. The art of patience and standing still while still standing. 3. It's ok to cry. Lakes, rivers, oceans…let the tears flow. 4. Time will heal, but the scars will always remain. 5. The magnetism of true friendship… 6. …And learning the ones who aren't there for us really just aren't worth it. 7. Our babies can still leave a legacy even if they don't walk this earth with us. 8. To not sweat the ... Read More about 20 lessons loss has taught me about motherhood, love, and life
IG Love in the Loss and Infertility Community
Instagram is quickly becoming my favorite social media of all time. A few of my favorite IG accounts in this community (from left to right)... CarlyMarie (how awesome is it that she has jumped on the IG boat!?) Devan Paul Jessica Rachel Beth Jana Bryan Lindsey Lori Beryl Kristine Still Standing MAG Return to Zero Franchesca #iamstillstanding Are you on Instagram? Follow us on IG @stillstandingmag and we'll follow back! Also feel free to leave a link to your IG account in ... Read More about IG Love in the Loss and Infertility Community
In Her Honor
When Bella died almost 4 years ago I thought my life was over. I wish someone had told me then that in reality, my life was just beginning. I've never been a hugely religious person, but spiritual yes and I believe our babies remain with us and teach us things about life if we allow them into our hearts and truly listen to what they have to say. I believe it was her who guided me to pick up my camera after she was gone, and create a new life in her honor. Bella taught me to feel my ... Read More about In Her Honor
40 Unique Ways to Honor Your Child
Remember, there really is no right or wrong way to honor your child. Do what feels right or is best for you and your family. There is no timeframe, and some years you may do more than others. That is ok. Some of these may not work for your family or beliefs, we would love you to add your rituals in the comments. Start a support group for other grieving parents Adopt an animal from a shelter Sponsor a child with your child's birthday Write for us Make a memory Shadow Box Take memorial ... Read More about 40 Unique Ways to Honor Your Child
