Recent Loss

Dear Meghan

To My Sister-In-Law Expecting A Baby

Who Is A Still Mother?
Still mothers walk among you every day

Life After Loss: More Than Just Surviving
I don’t want just to survive anymore: I want to thrive

My Loss Is Lost: A Pandemic Of Its’ Own
In a pandemic, it feels as though your pain is lost in the chaos

We Don’t Need Your Platitudes, Just Your Company
I don’t think these people realise the enormity that encapsulates the loss of a baby

Comparison And Secrets: Let’s Be Honest About Baby Loss Feelings
Someone will always rank my loss in their minds, deciding for themselves if I have suffered more or less than the woman standing next to me

A Year Of Loss And Grief
It’s been a year, and I still miss you more than words can explain

Dear God: Why Didn’t You Save My Baby
what lesson was so important to learn that it cost my child

Ask Away: Why Are My Co-workers With Living Children Allowed To Bring Their ‘Personal Lives’ To Work And I’m Not?
My superiors downgraded me to another, smaller, windowless office

If Only: Four Things I Wish I’d Known After Baby Loss
I regret not being aware of the options I had for my time with my son

To The Loss Parents Who Only Survived This Year
This year, I bore the unbearable; I continued to live after my son died.