Thoughts on Mother’s Day

Guest Post by Megan Skaggs My first Mother’s Day was an incredible mix of emotions. I didn’t really know whether to be happy or sad; or crying or not. I remember feeling quite numb. Our surviving twin son, Will, was about 10 months old. His identical twin brother, MJ, had been dead for about 9 months, and we were just starting to be able to see … [Read more...]

Mother’s Day

Guest Post by Stephanie Kreb A reminder of what I do have and a reminder of what is missing. I have two amazing sons and a daughter. My little girl died in my arms, because she was born with a fatal birth defect, the day before Mother’s Day and since them I have really hated the day, with a passion. I find it so hard to be joyful on the day … [Read more...]

The Mother Cord – Parenting Without Fear

  She draws me rainbows and colourful swirls and announces to me "This what heaven looks like, Mummy. My big brother is there. He died. But he is in heaven now, so it is okay. He has special lights on his hands". River, my daughter, sees things that I cannot. She tells me stories about how she has been to heaven before she came to live with us … [Read more...]

Sunshine

Guest Post by Sharon Chatham At present I am looking at the desktop wallpaper of our computer that my husband chose. To paint a picture, it is, what I can only guess is a sunset into an island horizon over the ocean. In the image, the sun is rising or setting on the right side of the picture. Also in the image the sun is reflected in a stream in the … [Read more...]

Motherless, Childless, Grateful on Mother’s Day

Guest Post by Laura Beck Mother's Day. It was always a difficult day for me growing up. It was always a reminder of what I didn't have and a reminder of what others did have. When I was a newborn I was put up for adoption and given to a couple that truly wanted me. My mother, Marnie, is the woman who adopted me. She was smart, she had class, … [Read more...]

This Mother’s Day

Guest Post by Robyna This won’t be my first mother’s day. It will be my first without my precious second born son in my arms. Up until now, mother’s day has been about sticky kisses and carefully crafted cards. About my husband trying to let me sleep in whilst my son hugs me and encourages me to unwrap the gift he made. It’s been about a … [Read more...]

10 Commandments for Surviving Mother’s Day

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Mother’s Day, a hallmark event filled with joy and happiness, can be a sad reminder of what some women are not holding in their arms. I’ve spent the past four Mother’s Days hoping and praying that I would be celebrating Mother’s Day with a baby in my arms but here, in the year I turn 36, I have to accept that not only am I not a mother but that … [Read more...]

10 Gift Ideas for a Bereaved Mom on Mother’s Day

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Mother's Day can be difficult for bereaved mothers and tricky business for those trying to support her. Below are a few gift ideas out of the normal flower sending tradition. We hope this list helps you in trying to support the bereaved mother in your life. Most of these gifts are created with love by other bereaved mothers. They know the pain, and they … [Read more...]

Healing Mother’s Day

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"A Mother is not defined by the number of children you see, but by the love that she holds in her heart." - Franchesca Cox I'm not sure that I have ever read truer words. Oh how I wish all of humanity could read Franchesca's quote. There is so much unrest surrounding Mother's Day in our community. The day has been bashed and twisted into a commercial … [Read more...]

A Real Mom

Guest Post by Leslie Matteson A real mom is made of more than what is done on Earth. A real mom carried life, even if they never gave birth. A real mom might swing her child or pull them in a cart. A real mom might have only carried her child in her heart. A real mom might celebrate birthdays with presents, balloons & cake. A real mom … [Read more...]